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Our actions however, have ripple effects and sometimes those ripple effects return to bite us on the bottom.
Ripple effects are not always that obvious.
Sometimes those ripple effects are put in motion years before - because things don’t just happen. Life occurs as a result of a series of events, built up over time. We see this in relationships, in business, in economics, in politics and so on.
And you, yes you, yes all of us - may be responsible for setting some of those things in motion.
We do not live in a vacuum.
Mostly we are so busy with our own lives, that we don't often see what we may be doing or not doing to ourselves or others.
But, what we put out - has a way of finding it's way right back to us.
The consequent result might not be favourable especially if we refuse to become aware that each one of our actions - has an equal and opposite reaction.
It's hard to take responsibility for our actions but if we don't, we'll just keep setting ourselves up.
Taking responsibility is about becoming aware.
It means looking at the bigger picture. It means taking responsibility for how your actions may impact on others.
It also includes making sure that the groups we align ourselves with, do not produce negative or destructive results for all those involved - for indeed anyone living around you or in your community.
It is so important to watch what we say, how we think and how we behave. We are after all, part of creating history and history does have a sneaky way of repeating itself - especially when we are asleep and not paying attention.
Let's instead, make sure that what we are creating is constructive and that it leads to a society that we would all be happy living in.
We can so easily leave a scar rather than a mark, if we are not aware that actions have an equal and opposite reaction.
Lets rather stay awake and alert so we can ensure that we leave a mark that all can benefit from.
So what's stopping you?
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About The Author
I help highly effective people understand exactly how and why they choose their personal and business relationships via my step-by-step relationship knowledge system. This shows people how they can make better choices to suit their life and relationship goals.
I am Psychodynamic Relationship Therapist, Life Coach and Teacher. I have developed a unique step-by-step Relationship Knowledge System which she wishes to share with a wider audience.
I am not offering relationship advice, I am offering relationship knowledge.
My knowledge is for highly effective people who want to create a difference in their lives. With this knowledge you can take charge of your own life choices.
This means that you don’t have be dependent on a therapist for longer than necessary. My relationship tools take the complexity out of relationships and it gives you an important understanding of how relationships work - even when things go wrong and you don't understand why.
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